You know when you say to your partner "it's not you, it's me; it's my stuff and I'm sorry I take it out on you but I can't help it"? That's the reason my partner and I went to see Denise.
What I learnt from her is that anyone who has lived has had to deal with things that in some way or another formed their opinions, beliefs, fears, and pain.
All those things play a part in every choice you make in your life, and when I decided to start making better choices, I needed someone to help me clear and finally give up those unwanted and often unwarranted beliefs I had built up.
People sometimes cringe when they hear "couple's therapy" and it scares them, because they are afraid of what might surface. But, because your partner is present, they get an instant insight into what it was that caused you to act in a certain way. Most importantly for me, my partner could finally understand that he wasn't doing anything wrong, and that I truly meant when I said "it's my stuff". And, I could to the same for him.
Because of the tools and advice Denise has given me, this healing remains a present in my life every day. My willingness to face myself with her as my guide has transformed my life in ways I never imagined possible.
I searched before, many times, and for me, Denise is a true healer, the real thing. She is the eye opener I needed for many years and remains a guiding light on my journey to discovering who I am by finding out who I'm not.
Tani
Queensland
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Sometimes the only way to find out who you truly are is to find out who you are not.
I had been to "therapists" before and had spent many years soul searching – trying to understand why I acted in certain ways in certain situations, however no matter who I saw and what I resolved to do, there were always certain aspects of my behaviour that seemed to "sabotage" my attempts to be true to myself, authentic.
My partner and I both came from dysfunctional previous relationships and we wanted help in finally facing and dealing with whatever beliefs, fears and other emotional pain that were embedded into our behavioural patterns.
Denise's holistic approach made sense to us, but what was unique and in fact central to the journey with Denise was the fact that we attended the clearing sessions as a couple. Being present while Denise works with your partner to clear their "stuff" gives you a rare insight into that person and their behaviour, and how those patterns play out in your relationship and vice versa.
Its truly amazing to realise that these issues, these events, some as far back as your birth, have played a such a major part in your own personal self fulfilling prophecies, and that they have nothing to do with your partner but everything to do with your relationship as a couple.
Denise has given me the insight and ability to actually choose every day, to be true to myself and to be authentic as a person and as a partner.
Thank you, Denise, from the bottom of my heart.
David
Queensland
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Through my work with Denise, I learned why relationships have been so challenging for me. What I liked about it was that she focused on the cause of the problem instead of the symptoms.
Her practical no nonsense approach really suited me. I'm constantly hearing from friends and family how much I've changed for the better. I know this to be true as I'm attracting very different people into my life now.
Thanks Denise for helping me discover who I am but also for helping me to like who I am.
John
Queensland
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Your words of healing, inspiration and hope have inspired me to
challenge myself. You have given me a light in a dark tunnel in the search for myself.
Stacey
Calgary, Canada
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Through all my years of work with Denise, the most valuable concept that grounded me was that the difficulties experienced in the past do not need to affect our future if we are willing to look at them.
Examination of the patterns and root causes, and actively changing the "pathways in the brain" has enabled me to become clearer on my core beliefs and values and to rework any that no longer fit.
Denise's clarity, skills, and enthusiasm for her life's work have propelled me through many stagnant, counter-productive times and reframed them all as learning experiences.
Most recently after attending Denise's workshop on "The Art of Deliberate Attraction", I have found my soulmate. I've never been happier!
Marilyn
Calgary, Canada
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I now feel happiness, joy, love and many other emotions that I had numbed myself to. My outlook on life has done a complete turn around and I now see it for the wonderful gift it is.
Francis
Queensland
